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"If you are patient when you suffer for doing what is good, this is a grace before God. For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example that you should follow in his footsteps.” (I Peter 2:21)

And yet patience, also referred in the Bible as endurance, is never easy. When a nonbeliever questions how a good God could allow suffering, I like to respond, “If Jesus had  to suffer an agonizing death on a cross so you could be saved, why should we think that we won’t have to endure hardships, let alone one that awful?”

Whether it’s the sudden death of a loved one, the loss of a job or home or something else, chances are we have all been through hardship at one time or another. It’s just a matter of the circumstances. In my case, it was often about unemployment. I was out of work for nearly a year more than 20 years ago, but I still remember this period like it was yesterday. My faith was weak at the time, so I worried more than I prayed.

Sick to death of the uncertainty and pit in my stomach  that came with it, I finally got smart and started reading my Bible. Proverbs 3: 5-6 and Jeremiah 29:11 proved extremely helpful and still do today. (I quoted them in my book Climbing out of Darkness: A Personal Journey into Mental Wellness, so I won’t do so here.)

Suffice it to say, I memorized both passages and pondered on them often. Whether I was alone at home, driving, or in a store, I would keep thinking about these verses and the more I did, the more I believed them. Before I knew it, I felt an incredible peace come over me even  though I was still out of work and with no job prospects in sight!

(This was also when I realized why God was making me wait for a new job – because being diagnosed with depression and anxiety made my realize it was my disorders that were causing the problems more than the jobs themselves).

I wanted “a job,” God showed me much more, how to come to grips with, and then how to overcome a mental health challenge (thanks in large part to Fresh Hope). I can look back on this period and know that, whatever the circumstances are now, God indeed is in control, and it’s just a matter of waiting on His timing to reveal the answer. Oh, and eight months’ unemployment was a piece of cake compared  to the 14 years I spent with my next employer! Talk about answered prayers!

If you’re fortunate enough to not have a vexing problem in your life, there are still things in life that test our patience. One of them is the different seasons. December is already a difficult time of year for those of us who live in the Upper Midwest with its snow, frigid cold, and fewer daylight hours. Getting laid off when I did, in the middle of winter made a bad situation worse.

While patience has always been a virtue, I dare say advice on this topic is more crucial than ever in today’s rush-rush, nonstop world. It wasn’t always like that. When I was young, you had to wait for the afternoon newspaper or evening news to learn what was going on in the world. Today, news is 24/7, even with our phones, when we are out and about.

But today’s hectic society doesn’t just involve news and scrolling constantly on our phones. Shopping in a brick-and-mortar store is becoming a thing of the past. We order nearly everything online and then expect next-day delivery. Even drive-thru restaurants don’t even seem fast enough, as many people will order ahead of time on an app. It seems no one can wait for anything anymore! And don’t be surprised if the driver behind you honks his horn if it takes more than five seconds for you to proceed on a green light.

I don’t understand self-checkouts either. I am almost never in such a hurry that I’ll choose to check myself out. Isn’t that what the employees are supposed to do? Waiting in line isn’t often as bad as it looks, but we think it is because we’re always in a rushed state of mind.

In other words, the worldly way of responding to impatience involves stress, anger, and frustation. Since God did not intend for us to live our lives at a breakneck pace, the result is the detrimental effect that anxiety and worry is having on our society’s mental health.

Patience on the other hand, teaches self-control, empathy, and maintaining a positive attitude. This is also discussed in the fruits of the spirit in Galatians. Even better, we know that as Christians, we don’t have to do this on our own. We have the Lord’s strength to respond with complete trust in the Father’s purpose and power.

Maybe Romans 8:28 says it best. It states that “all things God work together for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”

The “all things” in this instance, include the things that try our patience.  So the next time regardless if it’s being caught in a traffic jam, ridiculed in public, or my particular vice, computer problems – remember Romans doesn’t say that it’s just the “good things” that work together for our benefit but all things. I need to read and then reread, this paragraph the next time my PC locks up!

In conclusion, while patience takes time, it is always worth the effort.

Mike Jacquart belongs to a Fresh Hope support group in Wisconsin. A retired magazine editor, Mike enjoys sharing his story of “pushing through” on his book, blog posts, podcasts, and other presentations. For more information, contact him at michaeljacquart56@gmail.com.

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Por Peggy Rice, Entrenadora de Agentes de Esperanza (Hope Coaches) para Fresh Hope

¿Has tenido alguna vez «uno de esos días»? Esos días en los que los problemas —esas cosas diminutas e insignificantes que salen mal— se van acumulando uno encima del otro. No es un gran problema; es una racha de pequeñas decepciones. Parecen demasiado pequeñas como para mencionarlas por separado, pero juntas me dejan emocionalmente agotada. 

Tropiezo con el agua, lo que hace que los posos del café y la taza se derramen por toda la encimera, goteando por el lateral: ese centímetro y medio entre el armario y la nevera. Se me cae el libro —¡tres veces!— mientras intento cogerlo de la mesa. La bombilla del lavabo del baño está fundida, así que no puedo ver mi peinado, ni mi maquillaje, ni si la camisa me queda bien con estos pantalones, y ya llego cinco minutos tarde. La puerta del garaje no se cierra cuando pulso el mando. Me como todos los semáforos en rojo de camino al trabajo. Alguien se ha aparcado en mi plaza asignada. ¡Y ni siquiera son las 9 de la mañana!

Ninguna de estas cosas es una tragedia. Pero, de alguna manera, se acumulan en lo emocional. Es como: 

  • Gota, gota, gota. 
  • Muerte por mil cortes.
  • La gota que colmó el vaso.
  • Una cosa detrás de otra.
  • Los golpes no paran de llegar.
  • Funcionando con lo último.
  • Haciendo agua.

A veces, lo que nos agota no es un evento catastrófico. Son docenas de pequeñas decepciones, todas al mismo tiempo. Y para quienes cargamos con ansiedad, depresión, duelo o agotamiento, estas pequeñas frustraciones rara vez se quedan pequeñas por mucho tiempo. Nuestros desánimos se multiplican rápidamente. Pero, afortunadamente, la gracia también. 

Y tal vez por eso he estado pensando en el niño que le ofreció a Jesús cinco panes y dos peces. Me pregunto si estuvo a punto de quedarse callado. Porque, sinceramente, su ofrenda era ridículamente pequeña en comparación con la necesidad. Demasiado poco. Demasiado insignificante para importar. Y sin embargo, de alguna manera, en las manos de Jesús, se convirtió en más que suficiente. Sobraron cestas llenas de comida. Baskets of food left over.

Me doy cuenta de lo a menudo que la vida se siente así. Como si todo lo que tengo para ofrecer fuera una cadena de decepciones, cosas que no salieron bien, que no fueron de acuerdo a mi plan. ¿Qué puedo ofrecerle a Dios cuando todo lo que siento es desánimo? ¿Puede Él hacer algo con lo poco que tengo para ofrecer? ¿Cuando estoy cansada, fatigada y sintiéndome arrastrada en varias direcciones a la vez? ¿Cuando mi «lista de tareas» es demasiado larga para cumplirla? 

Dios siempre ha trabajado a través de ofrendas que parecían insuficientes. Una honda y una piedra. Cinco panes y dos peces. Una semilla de mostaza. La pequeña ofrenda de una viuda. Pescadores ordinarios. Una y otra vez, la Escritura nos recuerda que Dios multiplica lo que le entregamos, por pequeño que sea. 

Recuerdo que hace muchos años, cuando entraba y salía de episodios depresivos (esto me ocurrió durante más de 10 años), llegué a la iglesia para el Grupo de Apoyo para la Depresión que me tocaba dirigir esa noche. Vi a la líder de los grupos pequeños y me preguntó cómo estaba. Le dije que realmente no sabía cómo dirigir nuestro grupo esa noche, a pesar de tener un tema preparado. 

Había empezado a sentirme decaída unos días antes y me daba cuenta de que me dirigía hacia otra depresión. «¿Cómo voy a dirigir el grupo sintiéndome así? No estoy en un buen momento mental. Estoy luchando». ¿Su consejo? «Dirige desde donde estás. Cuéntaselo al grupo». 

Me pregunté si era un buen plan; al fin y al cabo, ¿no debería estar completamente entera, mental y emocionalmente? ¿Qué pensaría el grupo si supiera que soy débil, insuficiente, inadecuada? Pero seguí su sabio consejo. Abrí la reunión con una oración y luego, como siempre, dije que iríamos por turnos compartiendo cómo nos había ido la semana. Empecé yo: «No me siento muy bien en este momento, y creo que me encamino hacia otro episodio depresivo». 

La respuesta del grupo fue abrumadora; todavía se me pone la piel de gallina al pensarlo. Se volcaron conmigo: fueron amables, empáticos y alentadores. Rezaron por mí. ¡Me pasaron pañuelos! Lo entendieron perfectamente y me dijeron que agradecían que estuviera dispuesta a ser vulnerable y honesta con ellos. Fue una de nuestras mejores reuniones, en la que todos se abrieron y fueron sinceros, compartiendo desde el corazón. 

Dios tiene grandes planes, pero quiere utilizarnos en el proceso. Y nosotros no somos grandes. ¡Somos pequeños, inadecuados, imperfectos y humanos!Dios conoce nuestra debilidad... ¡Él nos creó! Y Dios lo sabe todo: conoce íntimamente a qué nos enfrentamos, cuáles son nuestras circunstancias e incluso cómo nos sentimos al respecto. Y decide utilizarnos de todos modos.

1 Corintios 1:27: Al contrario, Dios escogió lo que el mundo considera ridículo para avergonzar a los que se creen sabios. Y escogió lo que el mundo considera débil para avergonzar a los que son poderosos.

2 Corintios 12:9-10: Cada vez él me dijo: «Mi gracia es todo lo que necesitas; mi poder actúa mejor en la debilidad». Así que ahora me alegra jactarme de mis debilidades, para que el poder de Cristo pueda actuar a través de mí.

2 Corintios 4:7: Ahora tenemos esta luz que brilla en nuestro corazón, pero nosotros mismos somos como frágiles vasijas de barro que contienen este gran tesoro. Esto hace evidente que nuestro gran poder proviene de Dios, no de nosotros mismos.

Isaías 40:29: Él da poder a los indefensos y fortaleza a los débiles. 

Salmo 103:13-14: El Señor es como un padre con sus hijos, tierno y compasivo con los que le temen. Pues él sabe lo débiles que somos; se acuerda de que somos tan solo polvo.

Hebreos 4:15-16: Nuestro Sumo Sacerdote comprende nuestras debilidades, porque enfrentó todas y cada una de las pruebas que enfrentamos nosotros, sin embargo, él no pecó. Así que acerquémonos con toda confianza al trono de la gracia de nuestro Dios. Allí recibiremos su misericordia y encontraremos la gracia que nos ayudará cuando más la necesitemos.

Romanos 8:26-27: Además, el Espíritu Santo nos ayuda en nuestra debilidad. Por ejemplo, nosotros no sabemos qué quiere Dios que le pidamos en oración, pero el Espíritu Santo ora por nosotros con gemidos que no pueden expresarse con palabras. Y el Padre, quien conoce todos los corazones, sabe lo que el Espíritu dice, porque el Espíritu intercede por nosotros, los creyentes, en armonía con la voluntad de Dios.

Algunos días, parece que todo lo que tengo son unos pocos panes, un par de peces y un corazón cansado. Pero tal vez Dios siempre se ha sentido cómodo trabajando con lo que «no es suficiente». Así que le daré mi «no es suficiente» y veré cómo lo multiplica exponencialmente para Su gloria y Su reino.

Peggy ha colaborado con Fresh Hope como facilitadora de grupos durante más de 8 años y como entrenadora de agenes de esperanza (Hope Coaches) durante más de 6 años. Puedes ponerte en contacto con ella en peggy@freshhope.us.

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Peer support is now backed by more research than almost any other mental health intervention. But the numbers only tell part of the story. What really changes everything is sitting across from someone who has been where you are — and made it through.

 

I am not generalized anxiety. You are not depression. You are not your diagnosis. You are a son, a daughter of God. You are chosen by God. And that is what this family reminds you — there is hope.

— Cintia, 32 — Ecuador, living with generalized anxiety

Fresh Hope gives you insight into not only your diagnosis, but how to change your behaviors and your attitudes — and I think that’s truly important.

— Anonymous — United States

 

Two voices. Two countries. One shared discovery: that what changed everything was not a new medication, not a more accurate diagnosis, not a better insurance plan. It was a community of people who understood — who could look them in the eye and say: I know. I have been there. And there is a way through.

This is the promise at the heart of the peer support model. And it is now one of the most well-documented interventions in all of mental health research.

 

The Science of Being Understood

The Sapien Labs Global Mind Health Report identifies social connection quality — not just quantity — as one of the strongest predictors of mental wellbeing. Having people in your life is not enough. Having people who genuinely understand your experience, who do not minimize it or spiritualize it away, who stay present through the hard seasons — that is what the data consistently points to as protective.

Peer support is the formal application of this principle. It brings together people who share a common experience — in Fresh Hope’s case, those living with a mental health diagnosis and their loved ones — and creates structured space for mutual encouragement, practical wisdom, and shared hope.

 

= CBT Research comparing peer support to cognitive behavioral therapy finds equivalent outcomes across multiple mental health conditions — including depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder.

 

52% Of Fresh Hope participants who previously experienced suicidal ideation report complete resolution — no longer suicidal and no longer experiencing ideation.

 

96% Of weekly Fresh Hope participants report increased hope — the single most important predictor of long-term recovery outcomes according to peer support research.

 

That 52% suicidality resolution figure is not a small number. It represents real people — people who once believed, like Gabriela in Blog 4, that there was no solution — who found their way to the other side of that darkness. And the instrument of their change was not primarily clinical. It was relational. It was someone who understood.

 

You Are Not Your Diagnosis

Of all the things that Fresh Hope offers, perhaps the most transformative is this: the direct, repeated, community-affirmed declaration that a person is more than their condition.

Cintia’s testimony is one of the clearest expressions of this in the entire collection. She has generalized anxiety disorder. She was told, by the culture around her and perhaps by the voice inside her head, that this made her weak. That having a diagnosis meant something was fundamentally wrong with her — not just medically, but spiritually, as a person.

Fresh Hope is a ministry that teaches you, through the Word of God, that we are not weak — that we are people who need the Lord, and that the Lord has given wisdom to earthly doctors, but has also given His Word. Fresh Hope reminded me that I am not alone, that you can get out of this situation, and that there is hope.

— Cintia, Ecuador

 

Notice the movement in Cintia’s testimony: from shame to identity. From “I thought having anxiety made me a weak person” to “I am not generalized anxiety — I am a daughter of God.” This is not a minor shift in self-perception. It is a fundamental reorientation of identity that changes how a person engages with their treatment, their relationships, and their future.

The peer support research calls this “identity reconstruction” — one of the core mechanisms by which peer support produces better outcomes than clinical care alone. When people in a peer community model recovered, purposeful identity, it gives those still in the struggle a vision of what is possible for them.

 

You are NOT

your diagnosis

You are NOT

your depression

You ARE

a child of God

 

This three-part declaration — embedded in Cintia’s testimony and in the culture of every Fresh Hope group — is not motivational language. It is a theological corrective to one of the most damaging lies that mental illness tells: that you are your condition, that your diagnosis is your identity, that the broken season defines the whole story.

 

Insight That Changes Behavior

The voice from the United States adds a dimension that is easy to overlook: Fresh Hope does not only offer emotional support. It offers insight — the practical, lived-experience wisdom that helps people understand not just their diagnosis, but what to do with it.

Fresh Hope gives you insight into not only your diagnosis, but how to change your behaviors and your attitudes — and I think that’s truly important.

— Anonymous, United States

 

This is a crucial distinction. Many support groups offer solidarity — a place to share pain and feel less alone. Fresh Hope offers that, and more: a framework for understanding the condition, tools for managing it, and accountability for actually applying what has been learned. Recovery Principle III captures this directly.

FRESH HOPE RECOVERY PRINCIPLE III

My disorder can become an excuse. Therefore, I choose to believe I can live a full and rich life in spite of my disorder. I choose the support of people who will urge me to “push through”.  Together we do better than trying on our own. We will hold one another accountable for learning, growing, and choosing to push through in hope.

 

This principle names something uncomfortable: that even genuine suffering can sometimes become a reason to stop trying. The peer community creates the environment where that slide is gently, lovingly resisted. Not through judgment or pressure — Fresh Hope groups do not lecture or shame — but through the quiet testimony of people in the same room who are choosing, week after week, to push through.

The anonymous voice from the US points to this: behaviors change, attitudes shift. Not through willpower alone, but through insight applied in community. This is what distinguishes peer support from simple social connection — it is purposeful, structured, and oriented toward growth.

 

The Facilitator: A Living Proof

Every Fresh Hope group is led by a certified facilitator — someone who lives with a mental health challenge themselves, or who loves someone who does. This is not incidental to the model. It is the model.

The research on peer support consistently identifies the shared-experience credibility of the facilitator as one of the primary drivers of effectiveness. When someone says “you can get through this,” it lands differently depending on who is saying it. A clinician saying it is an expert opinion. A peer saying it — someone sitting across from you who has bipolar disorder type 1, or generalized anxiety, or depression, and who is living a purposeful, hopeful life — is a living proof.

This is what Cintia experienced. This is what Sergio found. This is what Norcángel offers when she tells a newly diagnosed person: there is hope, recovery is possible, you don’t have to walk this alone. She is not reading from a pamphlet. She is speaking from inside the story.

 

The Multiplication Effect

One of the most beautiful dimensions of the peer support model is what Principle VII describes: that sharing your story does not just help others. It helps you.

FRESH HOPE RECOVERY PRINCIPLE VII

At times, my mental health challenge has caused me to focus only on myself and my needs, leading me to believe the lie that I don’t have much to offer to others. Therefore, because focusing on others will help me grow, I choose to give back, sharing my story with others, that my past pain might provide insights for someone else’s journey to living well.  Together we recognize that sharing helps both us and others heal. Sharing helps us find our voice and becomes empowering as we see our pain redeemed by the Lord.

 

The act of becoming the person who understands — of moving from the one who needed help to the one who offers it — is itself a therapeutic process. It reframes suffering as something that has purpose. It transforms what felt like wasted years into a resource for someone else’s breakthrough. It is, in the deepest sense, redemption.

This is why Fresh Hope does not just offer support groups. It trains facilitators. It multiplies peer supporters. It turns people who were once in the deepest darkness into the light that guides others through. Every facilitator is a former participant. Every group is a potential trainer of future facilitators. The model scales not through budget increases but through transformed lives.

 

A Word to Anyone Who Thinks They Have Nothing to Offer

If you are in the middle of your own struggle right now — if the idea of one day helping someone else feels impossibly far away — we want to speak directly to Principle VII’s opening line: the lie that says you don’t have much to offer.

The research on peer support says otherwise. Your experience — the very thing you wish you had never gone through — is precisely what will make you credible to the next person who walks through the door of a Fresh Hope group. Your story is not a liability. It is your most valuable asset.

I am not generalized anxiety. You are not depression. You are not your diagnosis. You are a daughter of God. You are chosen by God.

— Cintia, Ecuador

 

Cintia said this to encourage others. But she was also speaking to herself — reinforcing, out loud, in community, the truth that her diagnosis had tried to take from her. The sharing helped her as much as it helped everyone listening.

That is the power of someone who understands. Not just what they give to others — but what they become in the giving.

 

NEXT IN THIS SERIES  |  BLOG 8 OF 10

You Are Not a Victim — You Are a Survivor With Purpose  Living with a mental health diagnosis can make it easy to be defined by the condition. Fresh Hope teaches something different: that the disorder does not get the last word. Natalia from Colombia and Sergio from Guatemala share what it looked like to stop being defined by their diagnosis — and start living with purpose.

 

ABOUT FRESH HOPE

Fresh Hope is an international network of Christian peer-support groups for those living with a mental health diagnosis and their loved ones. With 250+ weekly participants across 39+ countries, Fresh Hope integrates evidence-based recovery principles with faith-centered community. Find a group near you at freshhope.us

RESEARCH REFERENCE

Sapien Labs. Global Mind Health in 2025. February 2026. sapienlabs.org

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