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This is the second post in our series featuring excerpts from Outcast, a book by guest contributor Amy Zabel.

I remember the first church I visited in Traverse City. After the worship service, I asked the two pastors if their church had a mental health ministry. They glanced at each other in an uncomfortable moment of silence, then said, “No.”

I asked the question because many years ago, when I received my diagnosis in my hometown, I had a home church that couldn’t provide the support I so desperately needed. It was difficult to face the reality that the body of Christ was unable to surround me with love and give me the grace to heal with the help of others. The body of Christ is like the human body. We are made up of individual, diverse people who all need each other. If one part of the body suffers, then we all suffer.

So why did I feel I was suffering alone? Why did they turn their backs when I needed a place to feel safe and loved?

I understand now. The same fears surrounding behavioral health issues that exist in the secular world are, of course, present in our places of worship because the body of Christ is made up of fallible humans, just like me. The lack of understanding and support I experienced wasn’t their fault or mine.

But there is something we can do to be more supportive.

One way churches can enhance their support for emotional stability is by establishing a “mental health ministry.” These ministries are becoming more popular across the country, reflecting a growing awareness of the importance of spiritual and social support for mental well-being. This trend is evident in several ways, including more congregations offering mental health programs; more churches forming partnerships with providers; and increased training for leaders and members on behavioral health support.

So, what do mental health ministries do? They provide spiritual guidance, prayer, and a welcoming space for people facing challenges, while also working to reduce stigma through education and open discussion. This includes providing resources for both church leaders and members on how to support those affected, often including worship guides, sermon starters, and support groups. They even extend support to the families and loved ones. And while they don’t provide clinical treatment, they can connect individuals with professional mental health services and collaborate with healthcare organizations.

These kinds of services demonstrate—strongly—that we can be just as loving and accepting of someone with a mental health challenge as we are with other health issues, like cancer, diabetes, heart disease, and injury.

Through my experiences in support groups, many participants are hesitant to share their stories because of misplaced shame and the fear of gossip. Having a mental health ministry in a church says one thing loud and clear: “You are safe here.”

Scripture has plenty to say about our tongues, which can spread gossip devastating to those already struggling. I know; I’ve been there. We all know or care about someone with a mental health condition. If you’re one of those people, you need someone to love and support you through tough times. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help, but be careful not to overshare at first. Build your relationship gradually. Ask the LORD to show you who you can trust. Remember, you are not alone. He will lead and guide you. If we are the body of Christ, then . . .

“From Him the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.” – Ephesians: 4:16


This chapter is excerpted from Outcast, a book by guest contributor Amy Zabel, published in early 2026. It’s not available on Amazon — Amy is offering free copies directly. To request one, email helptheoutcasts1@gmail.com with “Fresh Hope” in the subject line.


 

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Four years ago, I wrote and self-published a book titled, "Climbing out of Darkness: A Personal Journey into Mental Wellness.”  Today, if I could redo the name I believe I would.  I got the first part right, “Climbing out of Darkness” but the rest of it? I’m not so sure.

“into Mental Wellness” makes it seem that a person with a mental health challenge has somehow “arrived” into great mental health, like it is a destination. There is “some” truth to this. In 2002, I was out of work for nearly a year, diagnosed with ADD and major depressive disorder,  prescribed Wellbutrin and then … the cherry on the cake, employment with a Christian publishing and training company that lasted FOURTEEN YEARS. My previous “longest” job tenure was a scant FOUR years. Thanks to God, doctors, and effective medical treatment, I was no longer in darkness!

Times were mostly good and I felt like I had “arrived.” Four years later, I went through a brief depressive episode that took me by surprise while we were on vacation. I figured this was just a blip on the radar, but in 2017, FIFTEEN YEARS after my initial breakthrough, I felt like I had hit rock bottom again when I experienced what my book collaborator thought was likely “prolonged grief disorder” when we lost our beloved Maltese, Baxter. (I later learned that I was far from alone. Samantha Karraa wrote that, “The person I had not seen in 17 years had shown up.”1

1 “Karraa, Samantha. Forty Days of Fresh Hope: A Fresh Hope Wellness Devotional (Fresh Hope Press, 2021), 83.”

My rough patch lasted many months, but it was also during this time that God led me to a Las reuniones de los grupos de apoyo de Fresh Hope. One of the greatest blessings in my group is that we “get each other.” We understand the pitfalls of a diagnosis because we’ve all experienced them firsthand.  This  “invisible” factor we share is part of what makes Fresh Hope special, especially Tenet III, in which “I choose the support of other people who will urge me to ‘push through.’”

But that’s not all we need to do to improve our mental health. Tenet V states that we must also “choose to explore new ways of thinking and acting in (my) relationships and daily living.

I am striving to do that. For starters, I read and re-read verses like Jeremiah 29:11 and Proverbs 3: 5-6 numerous times each week. Another favorite reads, “Above all else, guard your heart, for it affects everything you do” (Proverbs 4:23).

This verse ties in with neuroscience researcher Dr. Caroline Leaf’s statement that the average person has more than 30,000 thoughts a day! It’s no wonder that Pastor Brad says we need to watch our ‘stinkin’ thinkin’ or toxic thoughts.

Another new way in “thinking and acting” has involved putting Proverbs 4:23 into action much more than I have in the past. Sorry to admit but for too long I did not recognize the importance of our thought life and putting on the armor of God, as it says in Ephesians 6:13-18.

“Garbage in, garbage out” as the saying goes. In a fast-paced day and age in which we are continually bombarded by media, social media, and the seemingly endless scrolling on our phones, this is much easier said than done. But it’s not impossible! I don’ t own a smart phone, but I still spend more time scrolling on the internet than I should. It’s the wasted time, not the specific device you use, that poses problems!

Romans 12:2 says, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.”

Fortunately, I am finding there is more than “junk” on various online platforms, YouTube among them. Examples include scripture-like statements such as “Lord, I cannot carry this if you do not go with me,” and “Without you, I do not have what my life truly needs.” That’s for starters. I have watched videos about the amazingly consistent devotion of saints, and I’ve learned valuable lessons like Why Getting Older is God’s Greatest Blessing: Biblical Wisdom. (I am 67 years old.)

The point is, turn the tables on the online scrolling you likely do anyway, and use the search function to track down Biblically-based spiritual videos (or movies) instead of “garbage.” I especially like to do this when I’m relaxing in the evening, but one could do this anytime.

All this isn’t to say that I “have it together.” Hardly! Sometimes I “beat myself up,” and ruminate when I choose “garbage” over more spiritually beneficial pursuits. Or God may humble me when pride gets in the way and I hink I’m doing these things “on my own” rather than recognizing I’m being spiritually led.

The moral of the story is, there is no greater peace than the peace that comes when you choose to draw closer to God, and further away from the world. It’s worth the time and effort.

I have presented just a few ideas.  You may have better ones. As blogger Tanner Olson states, “I am inviting God to remove the things that are keeping me away from Him.”

And that title I mentioned? Maybe a better one might be something like “Climbing out of Darkness: My Ongoing Journey of Faith, Hope, and Optimism.”

 

Mike Jacquart belongs to a Fresh Hope support group in Wisconsin. A retired magazine editor, Mike enjoys sharing his story of “pushing through” on his book, blog posts, podcasts, and other presentations. For more information, contact him at michaeljacquart56@gmail.com.

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I’ve been reading a book every few days since mid-February, and it’s amazing how it’s touched my life, every time I read it. The book is called Getting Through What You’re Going Through by Tanner Olson. As I told him in the email I sent to him, asking his permission to share with those reading this Fresh Hope Blog, I’ve been using it every couple of days to journal on. Not every day, as I often need to sit with his words and meditate on them!

Each entry is thoughtful, and for me, thought-provoking. Like I said, I’m using it to journal from: I often write out a line from the poem in my notebook, or a prayer that the poem inspires. I highly recommend this collection, even if you’re new to poetry. Tanner is a writer, speaker, and spoken word poet. His poems read just like he’s talking, whether it’s words of encouragement to me as the reader, or just me overhearing his prayer as he asks God for direction or help. 

On August 13th, something about that day’s reading really hit me, so I reached out and asked him if he would let me share that poem here, in our Fresh Hope Blog.  And he agreed! So here it is, followed with just a few more of my thoughts.

*****

Make Me Whole – Tanner Olson

I don’t remember when I began praying these three words, but I haven’t been able to keep them from my mouth or out of God’s ears for the last few years. Between moving to and from states, starting a business, watching my own insecurities and a long list of unanswered prayers keep growing, I began to crack and break. Each day brought new frustrations and complications. Life grew heavy. Most days I felt like I was trying to find the light switch in the middle of the night, running my hand up the bathroom wall in the dark as I tried to find my way forward.

I’d wake up earlier and earlier, which led to shadows beneath my eyes, showing a growing weight of heaviness and hopelessness. Unable to fall back asleep, I’d light up our dark bedroom with the dim light of news from social media. It was anything but peaceful, and peace was all I wanted. 

News headlines told me how the world was ending. Facebook reminded me how death was out to get us all. Instagram decided it would be best to share skin care routines with me, and this is somehow by far the worst of the three.

The aching world seems to be groaning for wholeness, echoing the prayer I continue to pray: Make me whole.

With these three words, I am inviting God to remove the things that are keeping me away from Him, to tend to my aches and wounds and the things I cannot yet see or understand. I’m simply asking Him to help my hand find the light switch in the bathroom in the middle of the night, to help me find my way forward and through. 

With these three words I am asking God to do what He does: Draw near.

Sometimes, especially in cold and low seasons, I need to remind myself of who I am praying to. Not a distant God who hears me only when I pray, but One who comes close to His creation. This is a God of love, justice, and mercy. He isn’t afraid of my mess. He knows I just need a little help and a little light to keep going a little further. 

As I’ve been praying for God to make me whole, I have started to see how my brokenness can be a blessing to others. My cracks can reveal light. My scattered and shattered pieces can become seeds that grow shade for others to find rest beneath.

God isn’t blind to who we are or the troubles we face, but He leans in and points us to hope. He moves our hands to the light switch. He offers us peace, for He is ours. He sees our cracks and pieces and brokenness and gathers them in His hands and speaks to us: Soon

Soon you will be made whole, and you will be with Me.

I have to believe God weeps with us. Just like Jesus wept when His friend Lazarus died. In our hurt, God does not turn away or hide Himself. He scoots His chair closer to ours. He places His fingers under our chins, lifting our heads to see what is before us. Peace Himself enters into what we wish did not exist. For if it matters to us, it matters to God. As we grieve and heal and continue, God is making us more like who He created us to be, not less.

Through it all, God is reminding us: Even in this, there is hope.

The past few years have taught me that not much is going to make sense or feel right on this side of heaven. Prayers won’t be answered the way I want them to be. Headlines will read of horrors and heartbreak. Phone calls will deliver knee-bending news. Friends and family members will breathe their last, and one day so will I. Grief and joy are around the corner. I just don’t know which I’ll face next.

But today, while I am here, I will continue to live with my questions and doubts and cracks and navigate the unexpected. As I go, I’ll keep my eyes open for God’s grace and mercy, for His peace and love. And at night, before I close my eyes, I’ll open my hands and give to God what is weighing me down. I’ll exhale the heaviness inside my chest and quiet myself in what I cannot help but believe: In Him all things are held together, and He is making all things new with love.

God is always doing more than I can see or give Him credit for. I’m sure that’s something He and I will discuss one day over breakfast in paradise.

But for now, I’ll keep running my hand up the bathroom wall and I’ll continue to give God the broken pieces I carry around. And when I wake before the sun rises, I’ll be quick to look up and ask with faith for God to make me whole, believing He will. Soon.

By grace, through faith, He will make me whole.

*****

So much of this poem reminds me of the ministry of Fresh Hope. How when we’re dealing with a mental health challenge, either one of our own or of our loved one, we don’t sleep. We don’t have peace. We feel like we’re trying to find our way in the dark. We might feel ourselves cracking and breaking.

But also, as part of Fresh Hope, our cracks let God’s light shine through. That’s Recovery Principle VII – Giving Back. Letting others “catch” hope from us when they don’t have any of their own – this happens a lot in our groups

And ultimately, this poem reminds me that God understands, He is with us, and He is our hope.

Peggy ha colaborado con Fresh Hope como facilitadora de grupos durante más de 8 años y como entrenadora de agenes de esperanza (Hope Coaches) durante más de 6 años. Puedes ponerte en contacto con ella en peggy@freshhope.us.

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