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I could talk about my medications for days. It was one of the first slaps in the face that accompanied my diagnosis, and it was a big one. Being expected to navigate a litany of psychiatric medications seemed like a joke. I wasn’t a doctor. I was simply an ill person fighting to make it through my day. Everything was a mess: side effects galore, landing on the right medication in the midst of seemingly twenty different problems, the frustration of not sleeping enough vs sleeping too much, endless blood work to be done, and constantly trying to figure out the dosages of nine medications that wouldn’t stay put. As quoted in my book: “I felt like my meds bullied me.”

Over time, amazingly, my resolve turned my bully into one of my closest friends. Thankfully, my childlike frustrations gave way to maturity as I partnered with my doctor to overcome my illness, one medication at a time.

I am purely blessed by God to be where I stand today in relation to my medications. There are few people who ever reach this level of maturity. It’s the nature of bipolar disorder. The enemy deceives us at our weakest point.

I remember being there myself, for fifteen years. Garbage piled into my brain as I was convinced that I would lose everything if I took any medications. At that point, my creativity blew people’s socks off. I was deemed a genius when I was in school. I had so much energy. I felt superhuman. I knew that medications would suppress all of that. I didn’t want to take them. For fifteen years, I fought the medication battle. Every day when I woke up, I debated taking them. However, it was in 2019 that God came into my life and that is when He started to teach me spiritual obedience.

You must understand that a system was established in my life since the time that I was diagnosed. Its foundation is my doctor and medication regimen. I remember that my mother taught me to take my medications at all costs, regardless of whether I wanted them or not. I was learning obedience.

Everything worth having in life has a cost. It reminds me of all that I gave up in seeking God for the first time. After meeting God, my next priority was gaining a sound mind. I learned that it takes surrender to God to find true healing. In gaining a sound mind, I made a choice to take my medications faithfully, and it came with a cost: giving up my mania, my big dreams,  an obscene amount of creativity and everything that made me feel important. But what mattered was that I was learning how to push back on the enemy.

I will always remember one of my appointments with my doctor when he said to me, “See? Your personality is starting to come out.” He was only able to point that out after we had worked hard for nine years to perfect the medications that I took. People with bipolar disorder believe a lie that medications take away their personality. Mania isn’t their personality. It’s their illness. I am much more subdued at this point in my life and there are many things that I have lost in taking my meds, not to mention how sedated I feel all day long, every day. But, through this spiritual maturity of submitting to the system, God uses it for good.

I would urge you to do the same. I promise that you will certainly find so many treasures from God inside of this leap of faith.

Sincerely, Ruby

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Finding Maturity in Medications

By Ruby Lucas
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The world’s largest mind health study has found a disturbing link between early smartphone use and declining mental wellbeing. The antidote isn’t an app — it’s real human presence.

Recovery is not linear. There are good days and difficult days — and both are part of the process. In Fresh Hope I found a support group, sisters who pray for me, who can also intercede for them. I found this beautiful ministry at a moment in my life when I truly thought there was no solution.

— Gabriela, 31 — Colombia, mother of a six-month-old, living with anxiety

 

Gabriela is 31 years old. She is a business administrator, a daughter of God, and a brand-new mother — her baby was just six months old when she recorded her testimony. She is also a woman who, at some point before finding Fresh Hope, genuinely believed there was no way out.

Her generation — adults between 18 and 34 — is the most mentally distressed generation in recorded history, according to the Sapien Labs Global Mind Health Report. And the research is increasingly clear about one of the central reasons why.

 

The Smartphone Finding

Among the four root causes the Sapien Labs researchers identified for the decline in young adult mind health, the smartphone data is perhaps the most urgent — and the most actionable.

The study found a consistent, measurable relationship between the age at which a person first owned a smartphone and their mental health outcomes as an adult. The earlier the ownership, the worse the outcomes — across every country studied, across every income level, across every demographic group.

 

Age 6 Children who received their first smartphone at age 6 show significantly worse adult mind health outcomes than those who received it at age 13 or later.

 

18–34 Young adults in this age group — the first generation to grow up with smartphones from childhood — are the most mentally distressed demographic on earth.

 

Young adults who report high social media use show up to three times higher rates of emotional distress compared to those with low usage.

 

The researchers are careful not to claim that smartphones cause mental illness in a simple, direct sense. The relationship is more complex. What smartphones do — particularly social media — is systematically replace the activities and relationships that protect mind health with activities that erode it.

Instead of in-person conversation, we get curated performance. Instead of family mealtimes, we get parallel scrolling. Instead of boredom that allows the mind to rest and create, we get infinite stimulation that trains the brain to crave novelty and tolerate discomfort less and less. Instead of the deep, embodied presence of another human being, we get a screen.

 

The Generation That Was Never Bored

There is something important that researchers are beginning to understand about the particular damage done by giving children smartphones before their brains are fully developed. The adolescent brain is in a critical period of formation. It is learning how to manage emotion, how to tolerate frustration, how to build identity, how to navigate conflict.

These capacities are built through experience — through the friction of real relationships, the awkwardness of face-to-face interaction, the slow development of patience and self-regulation. When a child has a device in their hand that delivers instant dopamine on demand, those developmental processes are disrupted.

What the research links to early smartphone ownership:

Higher rates of anxiety and depression • Increased suicidal ideation • Greater difficulty with in-person relationships • Reduced ability to tolerate emotional discomfort • Lower scores on measures of empathy and social connection • Disrupted sleep patterns • Reduced sense of meaning and purpose

 

None of this means that every young adult with a smartphone is destined for mental illness. But it does mean that the generation now in their 20s and early 30s — Gabriela’s generation — grew up in an environment that was systematically less protective of their minds than the one their parents experienced.

They are not weaker than previous generations. They were handed tools that damaged them before they had the capacity to use them wisely. And many of them are now carrying the consequences.

 

The Hidden Anxiety

What Gabriela describes in her testimony is textbook anxiety in the digital age: a sense that there is no solution, that the situation is inescapable, that something is fundamentally broken — even when the external circumstances of life look manageable. This is the anxiety that hides behind a functioning life, the kind that Sergio in Blog 1 described as smiling on the outside while feeling empty on the inside.

The Sapien Labs data links this pattern directly to high social media engagement. The constant comparison, the algorithmic amplification of outrage and fear, the performance of a curated life — these are not neutral activities. They are systematically training young adult minds to feel insufficient, unsafe, and alone, even in the midst of digital connection.

I found this beautiful ministry at a moment in my life when I truly thought there was no solution. I thought I could not get out of my situation. But thank God He placed this ministry in my path — and in Fresh Hope I was able to learn to live always with hope, despite the challenges and struggles that can come because of my anxiety disorder.

— Gabriela, Colombia

 

Notice what changed for Gabriela: not her diagnosis. Not her external circumstances. What changed was that she found a community — real, embodied, present people who prayed for her, interceded for her, and walked alongside her. The thing that broke through the anxiety was not digital. It was human.

 

Presence as Medicine

This is where the Sapien Labs research and the Fresh Hope model converge in a particularly striking way. The researchers found that the decline in mental health among young adults is not primarily about what is happening to them externally. It is about what is being lost — specifically, the quality of human connection that screens cannot replicate.

Fresh Hope groups meet in person. They gather weekly. They are facilitated by people who have walked the same road — who understand not just intellectually, but from the inside, what it means to live with a mental health challenge. They pray together, share stories, hold one another accountable, and celebrate each other’s victories.

In a world where an entire generation has been trained to process life through a screen, this kind of presence is countercultural. It is also, according to the data, exactly what struggling minds need most.

FRESH HOPE RECOVERY PRINCIPLE V

While medicine is a key component in my recovery, it is not the only answer. Therefore, I choose to explore new ways of thinking and acting in my relationships and daily living.  Together we choose freedom over suffering, and joy in living through self-knowledge in action.

 

Principle V does not call people away from treatment. It calls them toward wholeness — a recognition that healing involves more than biochemistry. It involves how we think, how we relate, what communities we invest in, and what habits we form. In the smartphone era, this principle has never been more relevant.

 

A Word to Parents

The Sapien Labs findings have significant implications for parents — particularly parents in Latin America, where smartphone adoption has accelerated rapidly in the past decade and where children are receiving devices at increasingly young ages.

The data suggests that every year a child’s first smartphone is delayed is a gift to their developing mind. This is not about fear or restriction for its own sake. It is about protecting the developmental window during which children build the capacities — emotional, relational, attentional — that will serve them for the rest of their lives.

Family mealtimes without devices. Conversations that last longer than a notification. Boredom that is allowed to resolve itself into creativity rather than being immediately filled by a screen. These are not old-fashioned inconveniences. According to the largest mind health study ever conducted, they are among the most protective things a family can do.

 

A Word to Young Adults

If you are in Gabriela’s generation — if you grew up with a device in your hand before you had the tools to use it wisely — we want to say this clearly: what you are experiencing is not a personal failure. It is the predictable result of an unprecedented experiment in which an entire generation was the test subject.

And there is a way through. Not by deleting every app and living off the grid. But by intentionally rebuilding what screens have been eroding: in-person community, honest conversation, the slow and unglamorous work of showing up week after week for a group of real people who know your real name and your real story.

In Fresh Hope I found sisters who pray for me — and I can intercede for them. Many tools that have helped me move forward. And I found it at a moment when I truly thought there was no solution.

— Gabriela, Colombia

 

That is the testimony of someone who found the antidote. Not an algorithm. Not a mental health app. Sisters. Prayer. Tools for the journey. A community that showed up in person, week after week, and refused to let her face it alone.

The research calls this “high-quality social connection.” Gabriela calls it Fresh Hope. And she would tell you — they are the same thing.

 

 

 

NEXT IN THIS SERIES  |  BLOG 5 OF 10

Food Also Affects Your Mental Health  The Sapien Labs data identifies ultra-processed food consumption as one of the four root causes of declining young adult mind health — contributing 15 to 30% of the mental health burden globally. Sergio shares what learning to care for his whole self — without shame — has meant for his recovery.

 

ABOUT FRESH HOPE

Fresh Hope is an international network of Christian peer-support groups for those living with a mental health diagnosis and their loved ones. With 250+ weekly participants across 39+ countries, Fresh Hope integrates evidence-based recovery principles with faith-centered community. Find a group near you at freshhope.us

 

RESEARCH REFERENCE

Sapien Labs. Global Mind Health in 2025. February

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What Your Phone Is Doing to Your Mind

By Samantha Karraa
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When I first heard about Noelia, I thought about reaching out to her.

I don’t know exactly what I would have said. Maybe I would have told her that I also live with a mental health diagnosis. That I know what it feels like when the pain doesn’t seem to have a bottom. That I have sat across from people carrying the kind of weight she carried, and I have watched hope become possible again — not because the circumstances magically changed, but because they finally had someone who truly understood walking beside them. Someone who could point them, step by step, back to the only source of hope that never runs out.

I thought about reaching out. And then I saw the date. It was already too late.

On March 26, 2026, a 25-year-old young woman named Noelia Castillo Ramos died by euthanasia in Spain. She is now the youngest person in that country’s history to have received assisted death. Her life was marked by trauma, physical suffering, and years of deep emotional pain. She fought hard. But she fought largely alone.

I can’t stop thinking about her mother — who said goodbye, walked out of that room, and had to keep breathing. I can’t stop thinking about her father — who fought through five courts across two countries trying to save his daughter, and couldn’t. Whatever you think about the legal decisions, that is a grief no parent should carry.

And I think about Noelia. Twenty-five years old. So much pain. So much aloneness.

This broke my heart. And it filled me with urgency.

Suffering in Silence Is Not Inevitable

Noelia’s story is not unique. Right now, in every country — in your country — there are people carrying this level of pain in silence. People with mental health diagnoses who feel like a burden. Family members who don’t know how to help and feel completely alone in that too. People who go through the motions every day while something inside them is slowly breaking.

Many of them don’t know that help exists. Many of them don’t know that someone who has walked a similar road is willing to walk alongside them — trained, present, and free of charge. Many of them have never been told that their pain is not the end of their story. That there is a God who sees them, who has not abandoned them, and whose hope is real enough to hold onto even on the darkest days.

The book of Psalms is full of people who felt exactly what Noelia felt — crushed, forgotten, out of options. And yet, again and again, they found their way back to this: “My hope comes from the Lord.” (Psalm 62:5)

That is the foundation everything else is built on.

There Is a Place for You

Fresh Hope is a peer-led, faith-based mental health support ministry. People from over 39 countries attend our groups. Every week, hundreds of people with mental health challenges and their families gather in Fresh Hope groups — spaces where trained peers walk alongside those who are suffering, not to fix them, but to witness their lives, validate their pain, and point them toward the God who heals.

We don’t glorify Fresh Hope. We glorify the One who makes hope possible. Fresh Hope is simply a vessel — a community of people who have found that hope in Jesus Christ and refuse to keep it to themselves. And you don’t have to be a believer to join our groups. The only prerequisite is a desire for hope in your life.

If you are living with a mental health diagnosis: you do not have to struggle alone. Our groups are free. Our Hope Coaches are free. They are people who understand from the inside — because they have been there too. And they have found something worth holding onto. Reach out. There is a place for you in this community.

If you love someone with a mental health diagnosis: your pain is real too. Watching someone you love suffer and not knowing how to help is its own kind of exhaustion. You don’t have to carry that alone either. Fresh Hope has a place for you.

I found Fresh Hope — or better said, Fresh Hope found me — at a moment in my own life when I needed it deeply. It changed everything. Not because someone fixed me, but because someone showed up, week after week, and kept pointing me back to Jesus. Back to truth. Back to hope that is alive.

That is what we do. And we need more people willing to do it.

To Those Already Serving: Keep Going

To every Hope Coach, every group facilitator, every volunteer who shows up week after week — please hear this:

You are making a difference in lives you may never fully see. There is someone in your group right now whose story will not end in despair — because you showed up. Because you stayed. Because you chose to be the hands and feet of Jesus in one of the loneliest places a person can find themselves.

We didn’t make it to Noelia in time. That breaks my heart. But because of you, there are people whose names we will never know who are still here — still hoping — because someone like you chose to answer the call.

Don’t stop. What you are doing matters for eternity.

The Clock Is Running — Get Involved

Every week that a community goes without a Fresh Hope group is a week when someone like Noelia has nowhere to turn.

Starting a Fresh Hope group does not require you to be a therapist. It requires lived experience with mental health challenges — your own or a loved one’s — a heart for people who are suffering, and a willingness to be trained and show up.

Become a Hope Coach — our next training is on April 25th. Hope Coaches offer one-on-one peer support, walking alongside individuals who are struggling and pointing them toward lasting hope.

Become a Group Facilitator — training is happening Thursday nights throughout April. Facilitators lead weekly Fresh Hope groups in their communities.

The world does not need more people watching from the sidelines. It needs more people willing to step into the gap — to carry the hope they have found in Christ into the darkest corners of their communities.

Our hope comes from the Lord. And that hope is meant to be shared.

The world needs Fresh Hope. Not someday. Now.

Will you answer the call?

Our groups and Hope Coaches are available at no cost. To find a group, connect with a Hope Coach, or register for facilitator or Hope Coach training, visit freshhope.us or write to us at info@freshhope.us

— Samantha Karraa International Ops Director, Fresh Hope International

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Noelia’s Story Can’t Be the End — It Has to Be the Beginning

By Samantha Karraa
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