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Finding Hope in Thanksgiving

By Fresh Hope for Mental Health

As Thanksgiving approaches, we often hear reminders to “be thankful” and to “count our blessings.” For many, this season is filled with warmth, family gatherings, and gratitude for God’s goodness. Yet for others, especially those walking through difficult seasons—mental health struggles, loss, loneliness, or uncertainty—gratitude can feel like a heavy expectation rather than a natural response.

At Fresh Hope, we understand that giving thanks is not always easy. Sometimes the holidays highlight what feels missing more than what’s present. But the beauty of gratitude is that it doesn’t deny pain; instead, it invites us to see God’s hand even in the midst of it.

Thankfulness in All Circumstances

The Apostle Paul wrote, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Notice that Paul didn’t say for all circumstances—but in them. There’s a big difference. We’re not called to be thankful for hardships themselves, but to find reasons for gratitude even as we endure them.
When life feels overwhelming, gratitude becomes an act of faith. It’s a way of saying, “Lord, I trust You’re still at work, even here.” This kind of thankfulness grows hope—it reminds us that our story is not over, and that God is still writing redemption into every chapter.

The Power of Perspective

Research—and Scripture—both affirm that gratitude changes us. It shifts our focus from what we lack to what we’ve been given. Even small expressions of thanks can help quiet anxiety, lift our mood, and bring a renewed sense of peace.

When we choose gratitude, we begin to see how God has been faithful in the past, which strengthens our trust in Him for the future. Gratitude doesn’t erase our struggles, but it gives us perspective. It helps us remember that even in seasons of darkness, there are glimpses of light—acts of kindness, answered prayers, people who care, and the steady presence of Christ with us.

Hope Grows in Thankfulness

This Thanksgiving, maybe your life doesn’t look the way you hoped it would. Maybe you’re grieving someone you love, or wrestling with a diagnosis, or trying to manage the ups and downs of mental health. You’re not alone. God meets us right where we are.
Start small. Thank Him for a moment of laughter, a warm cup of coffee, a text from a friend, or a sunrise. Gratitude is like a seed—it might seem tiny at first, but it grows. And as it grows, it nurtures hope.

When we share what we’re thankful for, it also encourages others. Gratitude is contagious. A simple “thank you” or a story of God’s faithfulness can remind someone else that they, too, have reasons to hope.

A Prayer of Thanksgiving

Lord, thank You for Your presence that never leaves us.
Thank You for the small blessings that remind us of Your care.
Help us to see Your goodness even in the middle of our struggles.
Grow gratitude in our hearts and renew our hope in You. Amen.

Stay Connected to Hope

At Fresh Hope, we believe hope is possible—even when life feels hard. If you’re struggling this season, consider joining a Fresh Hope support group (online or in person) where you can connect with others who understand.

You can also find practical tools and encouragement through our resources, podcasts, and curriculums designed to help you live well in spite of mental health challenges. Visit www.FreshHope.us to learn more or find a group near you.

This Thanksgiving, may gratitude draw you closer to God and to others. May you find peace in His presence and the assurance that even in every circumstance, there is always hope.

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Finding Hope in Thanksgiving

By Fresh Hope for Mental Health

Finding Hope in Thanksgiving

By Fresh Hope for Mental Health
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The connection between exercise and mental health has been well documented. During workouts the body releases multiple hormones that help improve mood, cognition, and concentration. For this reason, doctors recommend that people suffering from anxiety or depression pencil in plenty of gym time. I know exercise offers mental as well as physical benefits because I experienced positive cognitive changes many years before my eventual diagnosis of depression and ADHD.

That’s the good part. What is less known is how a physical ailment can also negatively affect mental health. I learned this lesson three years ago when an X-ray revealed a pinched nerve in my neck. I was thankful for a consultation in which a nurse practitioner asked how my physical pain was affecting my mental health. (She knew I was taking Wellbutrin and Prozac for depression and anxiety.) A mental health assessment revealed that I was indeed more depressed than I had been in a while. A change in dosage to my medication was suggested and it helped!

Unfortunately, Marina London (a mental health professional and editor of my book, Climbing out of Darkness: A Personal Journey into Mental Wellness) has observed that “medical professionals still rarely inquire about the emotional impact of a medical condition. This is true even when we are being treated for chronic pain, a diagnosis that is known to negatively affect mental wellbeing. It behooves us to take responsibility and ask for professional help when we are suffering.”

After receiving physical therapy for my pinched nerve, I was largely free from pain for a long time. However, I recently began experiencing extreme lower back pain that led to an MRI and subsequent diagnosis of peripheral nerve disease. I am currently undergoing treatment for this affliction.

It was this passion for new methods of treating chronic pain that led London and a fellow mental health clinician to begin offering Empowered Relief® a breakthrough, single-session training developed by pain psychologists at Stanford University. The evidence-based program teaches practical pain management skills that deliver real, lasting results. (Fresh Hope for Mental Health does not endorse Empowered Relief® but presents it as an example of research that supports the mind-body connection). For more information, visit www.painshifting.com or contact Marina London at marina@painshifting.com

Another psychoeducational and evidence-based pain-relief program is Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT). Interested individuals are invited to join an 8-week educational Healing Workshop to overcome the challenges of chronic pain and embrace recovery in an expertly facilitated, peer-supported setting. For more information, visit https://www.painreprocessingtherapy.com/healing-workshop/

Note, neither Empowered Relief nor PRT require participants to end other pain management techniques they may already be using such as PT, acupuncture, therapy, etc.

With over 76 million Baby Boomers in the US alone, programs like Empowered Relief and PRT are vital since additional changes to physical health can be expected as this group continues to age. As mentioned, it’s been too easy to overlook the depression or other mental suffering that may occur simultaneously.

I’ll offer a few examples. I have been on an emotional roller coaster for months since the pain in my lower back (and other areas) began. I don’t feel depressed some days, but it resurfaces on other occasions when pain increases so much it hurts to not only get out but get into bed. Trying to sleep in a chair at night is not easy so I just deal with the discomfort instead. With this ongoing yo-yo of different levels of pain, I have increasing empathy for those who have experienced physical pain for many months, if not years. It helps us to remember that others are hurting, on many occasions more than we are.

I don’t know if one is worse – the physical pain that begins limiting every day tasks or the depressive state that the average person doesn’t see but which is every bit as real. Walking and other forms of physical activity help lessen both forms of suffering, but it can be difficult to motivate yourself to exercise when you’re hurting from depression. In other words, both types of discomfort affect each other, something that I don’t think many physical therapists and other healthcare practitioners consider. As Marina explains, the mental/emotional aspect too often flies under the radar since more health care practitioners are trained to alleviate physical pain than they are to help manage underlying psychological factors.

I try my best to not dwell on my affliction. I do whatever I can physically. I take my dog for short walks, enjoy nature, work two hours a week collecting money and other light work at a recycling center in town and, of course, I enjoy writing – especially blog posts for Fresh Hope!

More importantly I remind myself that my pain is only temporary. God will one day wipe away all the tears from our eyes. As much as our troubles hurt, Christians know that at some point they will end. It is a comforting thought that helps. Secondly, there are scores of helpful passages in scripture that can provide hope and inspiration on particularly trying days. A favorite passage is Proverbs 3: 5-6: Trust in the Lord with all your heart. And lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your paths.

This verse offers a great deal of solace. Since God is the ultimate healer. I need not rely solely on medical professionals for encouragement. God alone knows what is going to work best for me!

Matthew 11: 28-29 might be best of all: Take my yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

Consider these verses or look up a different one. Remember that everyone experiences pain and despair in their lives. Fresh Hope support groups are a safe place to find encouragement and hope. As the saying goes, “You can’t keep doing things the same way and expect different results.”

Mike Jacquart belongs to a Fresh Hope support group and the author of “Climbing out of Darkness: A Personal Journey into Mental Wellness” with Marina London LCSW. It is available at https://www.amazon.com/Climbing-out-Darkness-Personal-Wellness/dp/B0BQ58KJH4

A retired magazine editor, Mike enjoys sharing his story of “pushing through” on blog posts, podcasts, and other presentations. For more information, contact him at michaeljacquart8@gmail.com.

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The Connection between Physical Pain and Mental Suffering

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How Depression Changed My Prayer Life

By Peggy Rice, Hope Coach Trainer for Fresh Hope

I am so grateful for the heritage I have, as a child born to Christian parents, with a legacy of faith back through generations. I don’t really remember a time where Jesus wasn’t part of my life, though I publicly declared my faith in Jesus as my Savior through baptism when I was 8 years old. I was raised reading the Bible and praying, going to church and Sunday School, church camp and Vacation Bible School in the summers. I can say that I have been a Jesus-follower all of my life.

So, imagine my surprise, at age 44, when I was hit with a mental health diagnosis of depression. How in the world could this be? “Lord,” I prayed, “I have followed You all of my life. How is it that I can be so sad, feel so hopeless? I know Your truth, God, that my hope and joy are in You. But I have none. No hope. No joy. How is this possible?”

At my first appointment with my therapist, he asked what I wanted (to get out of therapy). I told him that I wanted my joy back.

The beginning of that mental health journey, into the darkness of depression and anxiety, was terrifying and confusing, especially at the start. It ultimately lasted for 10+ years, with depressive episodes coming and going over that time. And as they continued, I “got better at it.” What I mean is, once I became more familiar with the patterns, after several depressive episodes, and with the help of my therapist and husband to begin to recognize when one was coming, I was able to take appropriate steps to prepare, or at least try to prepare for it. And their severity was lessened, as I became more confident about what to expect, who to ask for help, etc.

But back to the beginning. When depression was dark and heavy, like a cold wet woolen blanket covering me, obscuring my view, slowing my movements and thoughts, pressing down down down. And I couldn’t feel God’s presence, couldn’t sense Him near me. He promised never to leave me. So where was He?

I cried out to Him, repeatedly. “Why, God? Why? Why am I going through this? What did I do to deserve this? Are You punishing me for something?” I searched my mind and memories for any unconfessed sin.

Nothing.

Then I began begging. “God! Please! Take this depression from me! Lift this dark cloud! Please, God!”

Nothing changed.

So I began to bargain. “Lord, don’t You see that I can’t serve You to the best of my ability in this state? How can I lead a Bible Study, or a prayer group, or even be an example to my co-workers, when I’m so lost in this sadness? I need Your healing so that I can be effective for You.”

Nothing.

Finally. Finally, it began to dawn on me. Or more likely, I began to sense the nudging of the Holy Spirit in me. I sensed it in my heart: “You’re asking the wrong question.”

It wasn’t a judgemental voice. It wasn’t condemning or harsh. It wasn’t even really a voice. More of a change in the direction of my thoughts. An aligning of my mind with God’s Word. His Holy Spirit talking to me.

“You’re asking the wrong question.”

“What is the right question, Lord? What am I supposed to say?”

“Ask Me about sanctification.”

Sanctification, according to my definition, is the process of being changed to look more like Jesus. It’s the pruning (John 15:2), the life circumstances, the situations that shape us, mold us, and conform us into the image of Christ.

So I began to ask, “Lord, how do You want to use this depression in my life to make me look more like Jesus?”

And, “What are You trying to teach me through this mental health experience, Lord?”

Finally, “Lord, please don’t waste this experience. Though I don’t see it now, I will trust You that You will use this – somehow – for Your glory, and my good.” (Romans 8:28)

At just the right time, because God’s timing is always perfect (and never as fast as I want it), He introduced me to Fresh Hope for Mental Health. And I saw that He had indeed answered that final prayer.

He has given me opportunities to serve Him, from my very own depression experience. I see now that He was with me all the time. My depression had blurred my vision. But that was me, not Him. He never left me. He walked with me. He sat with me. He caught all of my tears. And He began shaping my experiences into something He could use in the lives of others, even strengthening my own faith. And changing my prayer life.

I’ve stopped asking, “Why?” Instead I ask, “What do You want to do here, Lord?”

I often don’t get an answer to that question. In many ways, it’s actually more rhetorical. More of me expressing myself to Him, not that He’ll show me how He’s going to answer. These changes in prayer are actually changing me. I’m learning to surrender to Him. To depend on Him. To believe Him. To trust Him. And to let Him change me.

Peggy has been involved with Fresh Hope as a Group Facilitator for over 8 years and as the Hope Coach Trainer for over 6 years. She can be reached at peggy@freshhope.us.

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How Depression Changed My Prayer Life

By Peggy Rice, Hope Coach Trainer for Fresh Hope

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