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I’ve been asked to write some blogs for Fresh Hope for Mental Health. For anyone who doesn’t know, Fresh Hope para la Salud Mental offers peer-led support groups for people with a mental health challenge, and for loved ones. The mission of Fresh Hope is that people will learn to live a full and rich faith-filled life in spite of a mental health diagnosis.

I thought I would start by a little introduction. I’ve been attending Fresh Hope meetings probably almost from their beginning, maybe a year or so after they were started. It seems like such a long time ago now. My perspective is from the Loved Ones’ side.

My wife struggles with a mental health challenge. One of our friends, Robin, who started up a local homeless shelter, asked if I was interested in attending a local Christian Mental Health self-help group that was for both the person with the issue and for their families and loved ones. I think she may have asked twice because I don’t think I was very receptive the first time she asked! I probably needed to think about it for a while. I do know that I wasn’t sure if I was ready to open up to a bunch of strangers and tell them the things I was struggling to get through. I discussed it with my wife, but she was not receptive at all. Eventually I decided to go by myself. From my perspective now, years later, I’m very grateful and glad I attended. I’ve learned so much helpful information and it’s even given purpose for the anguish I’ve been through. It feels like my pain has been redeemed.

At my first meeting, I was greeted by a husband /wife team – they were very welcoming leaders. There were a few other people in attendance who wanted to learn something also. The rules of the meeting were read to help create a close group of people and safe place for discussion.

What interested me most – and maybe was the main reason that I came – was the faith aspect of the group. My faith was a big part of how I had made it this far without crumbling. I didn’t want to give that up! I knew my faith in God held a lot of my answers for hope, and I was expecting that this group could help even more. But I thought it would be a problem that my wife would not attend. It turns out, there were things I could do myself where I could help my wife, even if she wasn’t attending the meetings.

I had to commit to relearn how to do some things differently: like when to ask for help, and when to stop pushing her, and how to let go. Some things that I was doing were already helpful, and as I shared with other loved ones, I would get consensus from them that these were good choices. Getting an understanding of how my wife was feeling was another area that was really helpful, especially since we weren’t talking very much. Her depression made it hard for her to share with me – depression can cause a person to shut down and isolate.

I would like to encourage those of you who are family members, friends or relatives of someone who suffers with a mental health issue, you may gain insight and hope by attending a Fresh Hope Support Group. Even if the person who suffers will not come with you, go without them!

For those of you with a disorder who attend, if you have family or friends who are not attending, take a step in faith, and invite them to come too. Give them permission to help you. They will learn how you suffer, and will have the opportunity to be supported themselves, because they suffer too. This can be done on-line or in person if there is a group near you. (Click here to find a Fresh Hope Support Group.)

The more you attend, the more you will learn. With prayer and my persistence in attending, I set an example. I believe this was a way that eventually encouraged my wife to start attending and was an answer to my prayers.

At first her attendance was on and off, but I did not waver in my attendance (except where my job interfered). Now she attends regularly – she even will go online without me when I’m working! My wife saw that I was serious about it, and she has seen a change in me. Though it took some time, my wife continues to improve in her mental health journey, and we talk a lot more now. Fresh Hope for Mental Health is a big part of that success for her, for myself and for us as a couple.

As I learned to share my experiences, I gained friends. Some of the others from Fresh Hope groups are now very close friends because we can share anything each other. I no longer need to feel isolated; I have people to talk to who understand.
And I can choose my own joy in a healthy way; despite the up and down feelings my wife may be experiencing at any given time. This is my hope for you, that you also can find this peace in the storm as well.

Don’t give up on hope!
If you are a loved one, don’t wait: attend a meeting, even if your family member can’t come.
If you are already attending a Fresh Hope Support Group, invite family or friends to come with you!

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Finding Hope as A Loved One

By Bob Van Dyke
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Mental health challenges can feel isolating, overwhelming, and sometimes even confusing. When emotions spiral or life feels heavy, it’s easy to feel disconnected or hopeless. For many people, however, faith offers a unique source of strength, hope, and guidance. Spirituality helps create meaning during difficult times, providing reassurance that we are not alone in our struggles and that there is always a greater purpose at work.

For centuries, people have turned to their faith traditions to find comfort in the midst of pain. Whether through prayer, meditation, worship, or simply spending time with a faith community, spirituality has a way of grounding us when life feels unstable. It can serve as a reminder that even in moments of despair, there is light and hope that cannot be taken away.

Modern research supports what many have experienced personally—that spirituality and faith practices can have a positive impact on mental health. Studies show that people who regularly engage in spiritual disciplines often report lower levels of stress, stronger resilience, and greater overall life satisfaction. Faith can act like an anchor, keeping us steady when emotions feel unmanageable and life feels uncertain.

At Fresh Hope, we see this reality firsthand. The combination of faith and peer support creates a powerful environment for healing. When people gather in a supportive community, sharing both their victories and their struggles, it fosters emotional resilience and reminds each person that they don’t have to walk through life’s challenges alone. Stories of encouragement, testimonies of God’s faithfulness, and simple acts of compassion can be powerful tools for mental health recovery.

Faith doesn’t erase difficulties, but it can transform the way we respond to them. Instead of being consumed by fear or despair, faith gives us hope for the future and strength to keep moving forward. It can help us reframe our struggles, viewing them not as the end of our story but as part of a bigger journey where healing and growth are possible.

Here are a few practical ways to incorporate faith into your mental health routine:

1. Daily Devotions or Meditation – Set aside a few minutes each day to reflect on scripture, spiritual readings, or prayers that bring peace. These short moments of stillness can help reset your mind and remind you of God’s presence.

2. Prayer or Mindfulness Practices – Prayer isn’t only about asking for help; it’s also about resting in God’s presence. Pairing prayer with mindfulness techniques—such as deep breathing—can calm anxious thoughts and help you focus on the present moment.

3. Community Support – Isolation can intensify mental health struggles. Joining a faith-based support group or small community gives you a safe space to be honest about your challenges while also receiving encouragement, accountability, and hope.

4. Journaling – Writing down prayers, reflections, or even daily gratitudes can help track your emotional growth. Looking back on entries can remind you of answered prayers and the progress you’ve made.

5. Balance Faith and Professional Care – Faith is powerful, but it’s important to remember that it should complement—not replace—professional mental health care. Therapy, medication, or other treatments can be essential parts of healing, and using them alongside faith practices can lead to greater overall well-being.

Integrating faith into daily life doesn’t have to be complicated. Small, intentional steps—like a prayer in the morning, a devotional before bed, or time spent with supportive friends—can make a big difference. Over time, these practices build resilience, foster hope, and strengthen the ability to face challenges with courage.

Mental health struggles are real, but so is the healing and peace that faith can bring. With God’s help, supportive community, and the right professional resources, it is possible to live a life filled with hope, purpose, and joy—even in the midst of challenges.

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Faith and Mental Health: How Spirituality Supports Emotional Well-Being

By Fresh Hope para la Salud Mental
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I was born with a profound case of bipolar disorder. My symptoms began when I was only six years old. My mom reminds me often that I used to run into her bed every night as a young child, telling her,
“Mommy, my heart is beeping so fast.” She didn’t realize that I was having panic attacks on a regular basis.

My teenage years were not typical. While everyone around me in school played sports, joined clubs and had an active social life, it was clear that I was the black sheep. Having to battle the onset of an illness that would soon take me by storm, I struggled every day to keep my mind afloat. At night time, I wailed myself to sleep to the point of having a pillow drenched in tears. At the time, I didn’t know anything about complicated mental conditions. I only knew that I had depression. I was not prepared for my depression to spiral into psychosis.

The first time that I had a manic episode, I was actually part of an exchange program in Belgium. Being an ocean away from my family and immersed in a life in a foreign language during my health crisis complicated everything. Only two years after I got home from Europe, I spiraled into a second psychotic break that was worse than the first one. Everyone was convinced that I would most likely not survive this second blow. I amazingly escaped death countless times during the three agonizing months of my psychosis until I finally made it to the hospital, where I spent a month recovering.

My first episode happened in 2006 and more than a decade later, in 2019, the Lord came into my life and I have never been the same. I was raised in a firmly-footed Christian family and my parents and sister have tirelessly interceded in prayer for me since the onset of my illness, nearly two decades ago. Unknown to me at the time, my mom told me that there was one year of my life that she sat outside my bedroom window praying for me every morning. In my family, we understand that Jesus is our deliverer and we cling to His every word. Because so many people have told me that my life journey is inspirational, I decided to write my memoir. The title of my book is “I Will Fly.”

In my book, I speak candidly about my illness and I am not shy about declaring the Lord as our source of hope. The Holy Spirit has been the foundation for every part of my writing process.

My book is relatable to everyone. In reading my memoir, our loved ones learn the ins and outs of our daily hurdles, gaining new perspectives and learning new things that they had never thought of before. I dig deep into the aspects of life with a mental illness so that other people who have the same struggle do not feel alone. Throughout my book, I discuss topics of a wide range. Examples of difficult topics in my book include me losing all of my friends on the turn of a dime and also fending off sexual predators. All of this awful news is countered by the overwhelming love of God within my story and all that He has taught me along this difficult journey. I can honestly say that everything that I have been through has been worth it to me. Having the Lord in my life trumps anything that the enemy has thrown my way. I can best put my feelings of affection for God onto paper through Ephesians 3:17-19:

“And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge- that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.”

I can’t help but testify.

Ruby Lucas grew up in upstate New York. As a teenager, she took part of an exchange program to Belgium, where she enthusiastically learned French. After losing 100 pounds six years ago, Ruby embraces an active lifestyle and personally loves joining Zumba classes at the gym. At the age of thirty-eight, Ruby published her first book, called “I Will Fly.” In her memoir, Ruby chronicles her life battling a profound case of mental illness. For more information about her life story or her relationship with the Lord, contact Ruby at iwillflyrubylucas@gmail.com.

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