{"id":5915,"date":"2017-08-04T05:44:31","date_gmt":"2017-08-04T11:44:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pastorbrad.blog\/?p=2708"},"modified":"2017-08-04T05:44:31","modified_gmt":"2017-08-04T11:44:31","slug":"real-hope-has-gotten-me-through-my-hopelessness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/freshhope.us\/es\/real-hope-has-gotten-me-through-my-hopelessness\/","title":{"rendered":"Real Hope Has Gotten Me Through My Hopelessness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Life can be difficult. \u00a0No one makes it through life without painful trials and tribulations. And there is no doubt that having bipolar disorder on top of all of the typical trials and tribulations can make life even more challenging. \u00a0There\u2019s just no sugar-coating it. Hopelessness happens all too easily. \u00a0But life can also be beautiful. The truth is, no one makes it through life without experiencing joy-filled events and blessings. \u00a0But having hope and being hope-filled takes effort, unlike hopelessness.<\/p>\n<p>Probably one of the most\u00a0peculiar things about hope and hopelessness is that they can co-exist in life. When I reflect on the greatest difficulties and deepest depression that caused extreme despair in my life, it was hope that got me through the hopelessness. But it was not the \u201cwishful-thinking\u201d kind of hope that life would get better that got me through the hopelessness. \u00a0That kind of \u201chope\u201d is nothing more than wishful thinking that things may or may not get better. \u00a0And that kind of hope was not enough for me. \u00a0<em>Hoping<\/em> that things might get better could not even bring about the smallest of cracks within my despair.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-534 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/pastorbraddotblog.files.wordpress.com\/2017\/02\/img_6604.jpg\" alt=\"img_6604\" width=\"323\" height=\"323\" \/>So what is this \u201creal\u201d hope that got me through and continues to get me through living life with bipolar disorder? \u00a0It\u2019s the Real Hope that was born and died on the cross and His promise. \u00a0In particular, it is the promise of Romans\u00a08:28\u00a0that has gotten me through the many incredibly painful events that could have easily led to the bottomless pit of hopelessness. In Romans\u00a08:28\u00a0the apostle Paul tells us that the Lord will work all things together for our good. \u00a0As a person of faith, I believe this. \u00a0Knowing and believing this real hope does not mean that I stuff my feelings. \u00a0Rather, it means that as I feel my feelings I\u2019m able to work through them and deal with them because I <em>know<\/em> that He will take even the worst of life\u2019s trials and tribulations and make them work together for me for my good. \u00a0That\u2019s hope. That\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p>See, I\u2019ve come to understand how my faith has been instrumental in my living well. \u00a0I don\u2019t do wishful thinking kind of hope. \u00a0Instead, I do Romans\u00a08:28\u00a0hope. \u00a0In other words, as I go through difficulties (<em>and th<\/em><em>ere are plenty of them<\/em>) I recognize them, feel the feelings because I know that the Lord will take all of the pain and make it work for my good. It doesn\u2019t mean that all of a sudden things become easy. \u00a0But I\u2019m able to move through the pain, knowing how it will end.<\/p>\n<p>The Lord is the real hope. \u00a0The Father sent His Son into our messy world to redeem us. \u00a0Born right in the midst of the stench of that stable,He came. \u00a0And on that cross, He died for you and me. Out of what appeared to be a hopeless beginning and an even more hopeless death on the cross, He rose as proof that He is indeed our sure and certain hope.<\/p>\n<p>There is no way that I would be living well, much less living, without Him as my hope. \u00a0Romans\u00a08:28\u00a0has gotten me through the hopelessness. Grab ahold of that hope my friend. \u00a0Whatever difficulties you are going through this day, He can and will make though things work together for your good. \u00a0No, he doesn\u2019t promise a painless life. In fact, He says that in this life you and I will have difficulties. \u00a0Instead, He promises to <em>never<\/em> leave you, and to take those problems and work them together for your good. \u00a0And in knowing this, you and I can move forward in spite of our present circumstances.<\/p>\n<p>On this day, my prayer is that you will grab ahold of the real and certain hope we have that He will take all of your difficulties, pain, and problems, and work them together for your good. \u00a0Keeping moving forward: moving one step at a time. \u00a0He <em>loves<\/em> you. \u00a0He <em>is<\/em> with you. He <em>is<\/em> for you. And He<em>is<\/em> at work; making all things work out together for your good!<\/p>\n<p>Blessings my friend,<\/p>\n<p>Brad<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align:center;\"><strong>Our Fresh Hope podcast has been nominated for Wego Health\u2019s Best in Show Podcast award!We encourage you to endorse the nomination by going to:<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/awards.wegohealth.com\/nominees\/13355\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/awards.wegohealth.com\/nominees\/13355<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Probably one of the most\u00a0peculiar things about hope and hopelessness is that they can co-exist in life. When I reflect on the greatest difficulties and deepest depression that caused extreme despair in my life, it was hope that got me through the hopelessness. But it was not the \u201cwishful-thinking\u201d kind of hope that life would get better that got me through the hopelessness. \u00a0That kind of \u201chope\u201d is nothing more than wishful thinking that things may or may not get better. \u00a0And that kind of hope was not enough for me. \u00a0Hoping that things might get better could not even bring about the smallest of cracks within my despair.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":6016,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_mi_skip_tracking":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5915","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-hope-and-encouragement"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v18.1 (Yoast SEO v27.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Fresh Hope for Mental Health - Real Hope Has Gotten Me Through My Hopelessness<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/freshhope.us\/es\/real-hope-has-gotten-me-through-my-hopelessness\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"es_MX\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Real Hope Has Gotten Me Through My Hopelessness\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Probably one of the most\u00a0peculiar things about hope and hopelessness is that they can co-exist in life. 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