{"id":3710,"date":"2018-01-16T16:05:25","date_gmt":"2018-01-16T22:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pastorbrad.blog\/?p=3710"},"modified":"2025-07-08T18:51:59","modified_gmt":"2025-07-08T23:51:59","slug":"shame-based-families-versus-grace-based-families","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/freshhope.us\/es\/shame-based-families-versus-grace-based-families\/","title":{"rendered":"Shame-Based Families Versus Grace-Based Families"},"content":{"rendered":"

When raised in a shame-based family one can easily find life to be fraught with emotional landmines.\u00a0 Relationships can be difficult because of shame-based thinking.\u00a0 Shame can lock you into cognitive distortions that cause difficulties in marriage, parenting, work relationships and friendships.\u00a0 Shame itself can make it way into your soul, warping how you see everything in life.\u00a0 Grace, on the other hand, frees one to be in relationships with others and to enjoy those relationships even when there is conflict!<\/p>\n

In this podcast, Pastor Brad compares the difference between a shame-based family and a grace-based family.<\/p>\n

Simply put, this is a must listen to podcast for everyone!\u00a0 Whether you have a mental health challenge or not, you will want to hear this podcast.\u00a0 This program will be of benefit to you.<\/p>\n

We encourage you to share this podcast with your<\/strong> friends via your social media connections. To listen to the podcast, haz clic aqu\u00ed<\/a> or click on the icon below:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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After listening to this podcast, we encourage you to email us at info@FreshHope.us\u00a0with a comment or question that we will share on our next podcast.<\/p>\n

If you are listening to this podcast on iTunes, we encourage you to leave a comment regarding the podcast. Or you can leave a voice message for us on the site: \u00a0www.FreshHope4MentalHealth.com<\/a><\/p>\n

Pastor Brad Hoefs, the host of Fresh Hope for Mental Health, is the founder of Fresh Hope Ministries, a network of Christian mental health support groups for those who have a diagnosis and their loved ones. In other words, Fresh Hope is a Christian mental health support group.<\/p>\n

Brad was diagnosed with bipolar disorder in 1995. He is a weekly blogger for\u00a0www.bphope.<\/a>com\u00a0(Bipolar Magazine). He is also a certified peer specialist and has been doing pastoral counseling since 1985.\u00a0Brad is also the author of\u00a0Fresh Hope: Living Well in Spite of a Mental Health Diagnosis<\/em>, which is available on Amazon or at www.FreshHopeBook.com<\/p>\n

If you are interested in more information about Fresh Hope, go to www.FreshHope.us or email info@FreshHope.us or call 402.932.3089.<\/p>\n

To donate to Fresh Hope go to\u00a0<\/strong>http:\/\/freshhope.us\/donate\/<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

For a complete list of where Fresh Hope groups are presently meeting, go to\u00a0www.FreshHope.us<\/a>\u00a0and click on \u201cfind a group.\u201d\u00a0 Or you may attain an online group of meetings of Fresh Hope by going to\u00a0www.FreshHopeMeeting.com<\/a><\/p>\n

If you are interested in starting a Fresh Hope group within your faith community, contact info@freshhope.us<\/a><\/p>\n

Fresh Hope for Mental Health is a production of Fresh Hope Ministries.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

Fresh Hope Ministries is a non-profit ministry.\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

The copyrights of this program belong to Fresh Hope Ministries and\u00a0may not be duplicated without written permission.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

All of the podcasts of Fresh Hope Today, as well as numerous other videos, are all available on our YouTube channel: Fresh Hope Network<\/p>\n

\u00a0Fresh Hope for Mental Health is on Facebook at \u00a0www.Facebook.com\/FreshHopeforMentalHealth<\/a><\/p>\n

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