{"id":2631,"date":"2017-07-30T16:29:00","date_gmt":"2017-07-30T22:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pastorbrad.blog\/?p=2631"},"modified":"2017-07-30T16:29:00","modified_gmt":"2017-07-30T22:29:00","slug":"choosing-hope-in-the-midst-of-hopelessness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/freshhope.us\/es\/choosing-hope-in-the-midst-of-hopelessness\/","title":{"rendered":"Choosing Hope in the Midst of Hopelessness"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hopelessness is serious. Every day people fall into the hopeless hole of hopelessness due to their struggle with a mental health issue. Hopelessness begins to knock at the door of one\u2019s heart when you feel and believe that you have no future. It happens so easily, and it can take root all too fast. Each time we face one of life\u2019s interruptions which change our perceived future hopelessness can settle in and live rent free in our hearts and minds.<\/p>\n

Over 20 years ago I faced a life altering interruption due to having bipolar disorder. At that time I was pastoring one of the fastest growing churches in my denomination. However, following that painful manic episode, which had interrupted my life, I was asked to resign. It was earth shattering. My position and the church had become my identity. I was devastated to the point of complete hopelessness. I had lost my future. Hopelessness had set in. And the deep dark hole of depression became a shameful guilt <\/a>place of familiarity for me; months and months of severe depression followed.<\/p>\n

For years prior to this interruption I had felt as though I had a monster inside of me that I had to manage.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The more stress I experienced with pastoring a growing church, the more impossible it was to control the monster within me. More times than not, the monster was controlling me. So, when I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, I found out that the monster had a name. And strangely enough, a small ray of hope began to break through the hopelessness what had swallowed me whole.<\/p>\n

Why would there be a small ray of hope following my diagnosis? \u00a0 After all, usually people see the diagnosis of bipolar disorder as the difficult thing to accept.<\/a> Well, it was because of the people around me who helped me to see that the diagnosis and treatment of my bipolar disorder were a way back to having a future. It was the idea that the bipolar could be treated and I could have a future poked a small pinhole of hope into the darkness of hopelessness. It was not an easy journey, but it was more than worth it. With that small pinhole of hope, I could see a way forward. I began to grieve what I had lost and began to embrace a new and different future; believing that I could live well in spite of having bipolar disorder<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Dr. Sean Lopez, the author of Making Hope Happen<\/a>, has done extensive research on hope for over 14 years. His research supports what I experienced. When I thought I had no future, hopelessness set in and took over. And when I could see the way to a future, hope began to start. And the clearer the future became for me, the more hope I felt.<\/p>\n

Interestingly enough, hope can be borrowed, shared and it can be caught! Think about it, if you hang around a lot of hopeless friends, you will begin to feel hopeless. And if you hang out with people who are filled with hope you will begin to feel hopeful.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

So, I have a question for you: How is your hope tank doing?<\/strong> Do you feel like you can see a way forward? If not, do you potentially need to let go of the future that as you thought it would be, grieve it and let it go? Do you need to embrace the new potential future? There\u2019s no doubt that doing this is a process. It is not like switching a light switch on. But, it is a choice.<\/p>\n

Hope is truly a choice. For me as a Christian, hope is not only a choice, but it is sure and certain. Paul reminds us that no matter what are circumstances might be there is a future because the Lord will work all things out together for our good. (Romans 8:28) So, I certainly may not \u201cfeel\u201d hopeful, but I choose to believe Romans 8:28 and that means that there is a future. It may not have been the future as I thought it would be, but it is a future.<\/p>\n

So, again, my question is: how is your hope tank? Is your hope tank empty? Is being a caregiver sucking the hope right out of you? Do you see a way forward into the future?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Are you strong enough to make the choice of hope? If not, I have some hope you can borrow.<\/strong>See, I know because of the storms I\u2019ve been through in my life that God is at work in all things. He is with you. He has not left you. He won\u2019t leave you. And He is FOR you and your entire family! He has a plan. It may not be the life you and I planned prior to bipolar showing up, but in spite of us having bipolar disorder He has a plan!<\/p>\n

Everything may not be \u201cgood\u201d right now, but all is well because of Him. He has heard every single one of your tears as a liquid prayer.\u00a0\u00a0 Look for that little tiny bit of light coming through the \u201cpin\u201d hole poking through the hopelessness you might be feeling. Choose hope<\/a>. Choose it minute-by-minute, hour-by-hour, day-by-day and your feelings will begin to catch up. There is a future and joy is included in it.<\/p>\n

Our Fresh Hope podcast has been nominated for a WeGoHealth.com award. Would you mind endorsing it? (It’s like the people’s choice awards- endorsing it is like voting for the podcast.) \u00a0If so, go to:\u00a0https:\/\/awards.wegohealth.com\/nominees<\/a>\u00a0to endorse the podcast! \u00a0Thanks!<\/em><\/h3>\n

Check out Brad\u2019s weekly podcast at: www.FreshHope4MentalHealth.com<\/strong><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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